How do you create confidence?
GIRL if you asked me to count the number of times I’ve been asked THAT question, well…let’s just say we don’t have enough time to count!
But the good news is I know exactly how to create confidence! And though it may not be a one-stop-shop answer or over-night success , I’ve watched it transform the lives of women in Ditch the Clique’s Confidence Coaching Community over and over and over again.
So how do you create confidence?
Start with our FREE 30 Days to a More Confident YOU downloadable resource!
GIRL, you make yourself a promise, and you keep it.
Yes, it’s that easy. Well, okay. Maybe not THAT easy…but let me explain…
When you commit yourself to something and you follow through with it, you prove to YOURSELF that you are capable of keeping a promise. And kept promises build confidence. Why are we so confident in the friend who is a vault and has kept our deepest, darkest secret for YEARS? Because they keep their promise over and over and over again. And when we do the same for ourselves (regardless of how great or small the promise may be) we build confidence in us!
So my number 1 tip?
Start with a small promise today and keep it.
Promise to move your body or read a book. One promise I make DAILY (and keep daily) is to journal my morning pages. Not only does starting my day this way kick it off with great intention, but it is a promise I know I can keep that easily boosts my confidence in me! My point? Start with a small promise you can keep that positively impacts you.
Learn more about keeping the promise of Morning Pages here!
But what about tomorrow? GIRL, make a slightly greater promise tomorrow and follow through with it again. When you continue the cycle I promise you will witness results!
GIRL are you looking for someone to hold YOU accountable to the confidence boosting promises you’re working hard to keep? Join Ditch the Clique’s one on one Confidence Coaching Community for support every step of the way!

who is Rachel?
Rachel K. Grim is the Brooklyn New York based blogger, speaker, and empowerHER behind the event series and online community Ditch the Clique. In 2019 Rachel launched Ditch the Clique to empower REAL women of all ages, races, sizes, and careers with goal-getting resources to live the life they dream! When she’s not scheming new ways to grow the Ditch the Clique COMMUNITY, Rachel can be found eating and shopping her way through New York City, traveling abroad, or watching binge-worthy reality television (with a glass of prosecco in hand, of course)!
Follow Rachel @rachelkgrim